Monday, September 29, 2014

Orphan Train by Christina Baker Kline, 2013

Recommended by a close friend who is also an avid reader, Orphan Train is a stark contrast to the Crazy Rich Asian world that I just left.

Molly is a Maine high schooler who has grown up in foster care.  With an alcoholic father who passes away in a car accident and a drug addicted absent mother, Molly is used to being alone, unloved and uncared for, an outsider.

She crosses path with Vivian Daly, an octogenarian from the midwest who retired to Maine and lives in a grand home by the sea, when she is forced to do community service for stealing a dog-eared copy of Jane Eyre from the library.

While helping Vivian clear away her attic as part of her community service hours, Molly is drawn into Vivian's startling childhood on the historically accurate orphan train that brought her from New York City to Minnesota in the 1920s.

Powerfully written, Vivian's story unfolds in the Midwest as she helplessly goes through abusive foster homes.  Her name is changed from the Irish Niamph to Dorothy.  She lives in squalor with no indoor plumbing or electricity.  She is only nine-years-old and helpless to change her circumstances.

Because of a kind teacher, Vivian finally finds a caring home and although her foster parents will never truly compare to the parents that she lost, she is cared for, fed and treated like a daughter.

A page-turner like the best mysteries, Orphan Train makes my heart ache for the many children out there without families or any sense of security, who are vulnerable and so helpless.

A backdrop for the story, the state of Maine stirred up memories of my recent camping trip there when I fell in love with the state.  Being so close to the forest and the sea truly inspires creativity and creates a very special vibe. 

The author, Christina Baker Kline, lives in New York City, but spends time in Maine.  Reading Orphan Train makes me want to buy a quaint Maine home on a lake and write powerful novels.

If only it was that simple...  I'd be writing novels in Maine and not blogging about books I've read in Boston.

An update a month later: I loved Orphan Train so much, that I was really looking forward to Kline's The Way Life Should Be, 2007.  The story centers around a NYC woman who decides to leave the bustle of the city to live in a small town in Maine, where the man she just met online lives.

Kline's ability to capture truism is in the story - how on internet dating profiles, everyone loves hiking!  And as protagonist Angela Russo observes, 'In my experience, when somebody says "Relax, I'm joking," they usually aren't.'

The humor is there as well.  When Angela spies a truck with flames on the back of her new love interest's truck, she hopefully wonders that trucks come off the assembly floors like that and that's why he has them on his truck...

I relate to Angela's apparently crazy and impulsive decision to move to Maine.  I've been in a rut before where I was more than ready to make a situation far more than it really was, and made a major life decision.

(It did not work out and I'm thankful that I had my family to lean on when things fell through.)

Despite being able to relate to the protagonist, and really enjoying how Kline captures human nuances, I found The Way Life Should Be tedious and could not finish the story.

Saturday, September 27, 2014

Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan, 2013

Crazy Rich Asians is a fun romp through the ultra rich jet set of Signapore, Shanghai and Hong Kong.

These crazy rich folks have no jobs and pass their time with hundred thousand dollar shopping sprees, helicopter trips and private planes to casinos and private island resorts.

Mini-celebrities, crazy rich Asians are constantly keeping up with appearances, embroiled in gossip, judging and being judged by others.

The central character is an ABC (American Born Chinese), Rachel Chu, who lives in New York City with her boyfriend Nick Young.

Rachel has no idea how rich, much less crazy rich, Nick is and only finds out when they head to Singapore for Nick's best friend Colin Khoo's wedding.

In Singapore, Rachel discovers that Nick literally grew up in a palace surrounded by servants, with a grandmother who has been gifted ladies in waiting from the King of Thailand.

There are multiple story lines in the novel where each character, no matter how crazy rich, has heartache that must be dealt with - whether it's Nick's cousin Astrid in a struggling marriage, Colin's anxiety of being in the spotlight with his upcoming nuptial to Araminta Lee (also crazy rich, of course), or Nick's cousin Eddie's superficiality and jealousy that forces him to dress his young children in matching Ralph Lauren outfits.

Like every country, there are differences between old and new money. Asians from mainland China represent the new money for Singaporeans, Shanghainese and Hong Kongese, and tend to be flashier, like Rachel's Singaporean friend from Stanford Peik Lin, who lives in an estate with a reproduction of Versailles' Hall of Mirrors.

By contrast, Nick's family is well ensconced in the old money category, with a rich lineage of crazy rich ancestors.

With footnotes throughout that provide details on local foods and Malay and Pernakin slang, and dialogue that includes vernacular such as "henwees" or HNWI (high network individual), Kwan immerses the reader in this crazy rich world where brand name labels pepper every day conversation much like the weather for New Englanders.

As an ABC, I can definitely relate to the cultural accuracy described in this book.  Not only are Asians obsessed with food, but also with their children, especially daughters, marrying well.  There are constant comparisons to others and extreme materialism - whether pertaining to wealth or other representation of "success," like attending Cambridge University.

(Harvard and American universities are not worth going go.)

The perception of ABC's also ring true - that we are overly overconfident and overly familiar, and oblivious to the ultra rich pecking order of other countries.  This is an accurate description of all Americans though, not just Asian Americans.

An international tale, with chapters taking place in Singapore, Hong Kong and Paris, Crazy Rich Asians is a glimpse inside the mega rich of Asia, who are not shy about showcasing their extreme wealth, whether with a yatch with its own helicopter landing pad, hot tub or library; or high-tech temperature zone controlled closet with a camera that captures each outfit.

To distinguish between all these crazy rich Asians, there are tell-tale signs such as Singaporeans who tend to wear less jewelry because they are afraid of getting mugged, Hong Kongeans who tend to all dress alike in the same designer brands, and Japanese who dress like they're about to go play golf.

Despite the tell-tale signs, all crazy rich Asians have something in common - the love of shopping and snapping up designer labels.  To the dismay of many crazy rich Asians, the Louis Voitton store in Paris limits purchases of one item per customer. 

Even walking along Newbury Street in Boston, stores are mobbed with frenzied Asian tourists scooping things up.  A childhood friend and fellow ABC would always get a kick out of going into a Newbury Street boutique and being waiting on hand and foot as shopkeepers thought she was a crazy rich Asian tourist.

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

The Truth About The Harry Quebert Affair by Joel Dicker, 2012

A fast-paced story with endless twists and turns, Joel Dicker's The Truth About The Harry Quebert Affair had me hooked form the beginning.

A  story within a story within a story, the novel centers around Marcus Goldman, a writer who returns to his college professor mentor as he experiences the writer's disease and finds himself unable to write.

Reunited with the reknowned Harry Quebert at his New Hampshire home, Goldman is swept up in a series of events that kicks off with the body of a girl that is found buried on Quebert's property.

The girl is Nola Kellargan, who disappeared from Somerset, NH at the age of 15, over three decades ago.

It soon comes to light that the then 34-year-old Quebert had had a love affair with Nola.

Somerset is rocked in scandal and Quebert sent to jail.  Convinced of Quebert's innocents, Goldman returns to Somerset to clear his mentor's name.

Teamed up with the local Sergeant Perry Gahalowood, Goldman uncovers many secrets that will keep the reader guessing until the very end.

Each character is so nuanced, that I never lost track of anyone despite the large cast of characters in the 600+ page novel.

Memorable characters include Luther Caleb, Elijah Stern, Jenny Dawn, Tamara Quinn, Robert Quinn, Travis Dawn, Chief Pratt, Nancy Hattaway, Roy Barnaski, David Kellerga, and of course, Ernie Pinkas.

Framed by the 31 rules of writing that Quebert imparted onto Goldman, the twists and turns and second-guessing do not just pertain to who murdered Nola Kellergan, but almost everything else in between.

Even the Acknowledgement is an unexpected surprise.

It has been awhile since I've stayed up late during the week night to read a book (specifically, since the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series and Gone Girl), but I read for three hours straight because I could not put down the book.

A 27-year-old Swiss man who spent his summers in New England, Dicker has written an incredibly original story that captures small-town Americans so well.

The best person to observe a group is an outsider, who is unfamiliar with customs and habits and will pick up on the slightest nuances.  This is what Dickers did as a Swiss spending his summer in the States.

To add to the international background of the novel, The Truth About The Harry Quebert Affair was originally written in French.

Harry Quebert's 31 Rules for Writing:
31. The first chapter, Marcus, is essential.  If the readers don't like it, they won't read the rest of the book.
30. Your second chapter is very important, Marcus, it has to be incisive, hard-hitting.
29. Everyone knows how to writ, but everyone is a writer...  Nobody knows he's a writer.  It's other people who tell you.
28. Life is a long drop, Marcus.  The most important thing is knowing how to fall.
27. Anytime you have doubts about what you're doing, go outside and run.  Run until you can't run anymore.  Run until you feel that fierce desire to win being born within you.
26. The reason writers are such fragile beings, Marcus, is that they suffer from two sort of emotional pain, which is twice as much as normal human beings: the heartache of love and the heartache of books.  Writing a book is like loving someone.  It can be very painful.
25. "How does one become a writer, Harry"  By never giving up.
24. You see, boxing and writing are similar.  You get in the guard position, you decide to throw yourself into battle...  A book is more a less the same.  A book is a battle.
23. "And the characters?  Where do you get the inspiration for your characters?"  From everyone.  A friend, a cleaning lady, the bank clerk.  But be careful: it's not the people themselves who provide your inspiration, but what they do.
22. Because the writer's disease isn't an inability to write anymore: it's being incapable of stopping.
21. Marcus, do you know what is the only way to know how much you love someone?  By losing them.
20. Victory is within you.  All you need is to want to let it out.
19. Writers who spend all night writing, addicted to caffeine and smoking hand-rolled cigarettes, are a myth, Marcus.  You have to be disciplined...  There are exercises to to be repeated, at certain times of the day.  You have to be persistent, you have to maintain a good rhythm, and your life has to be perfectly ordered.
The author, Joel Dicker
18. In our society, Marcus, the most admired men are those who build bridges, skyscrapers, and empires.  But in reality, the proudest and most admirable are those who manage to build love.  Because there is no greater or more difficult undertaking.
17. That when you have an idea, rather than immediately turning it into one of your unreadable stories..you should not let it out.  You should nurture it inside you, allow it to ripen until you feel it's the right moment...  Turn your ideas...into illuminations.
16. "Harry, how long does it take to write a book?"  That depends.  On everything.
15. Words are for everybody, until you prove that you are capable of appropriating them.  That's what defines a writer.  You see, Marcus, some people would like you to believe that a book consists of relationships between words, but that's not true: It is in fact about relationships between people.
14. You see, Marcus, the way it works in our society, we are constantly having to choose between reason and passion.  Reason never helps anyone, and passion is often destructive.
13.  The danger of books, Marcus, is that sometimes you lose control of them.  When you are published, the thing that you have written in such solitary fashion suddenly escapes from your hands and enters the realm of the public.  This is a moment of great danger; you must keep control of the situation at all times.  It is disastrous to lose control of your own book.
12. Learn to love your failures, Marcus, because it is your failures that will make you who you are.  It is your failures that will give meaning to your victories.
11. You should box like you write and write like you box: You should give everything you have because each match, like each book, might be your last.
10. Writing means being able to feel things more strongly than other people do and to communicate those feelings.  Writing means allowing your readers to see things they sometimes can't see.  If only orphans wrote books about orphans, we'd never get anywhere...  And if a writer had to limit his writing to his own experiences, literature would be impoverished and lost all its meaning.  We're allowed to write anything that affects us.  And no one can judge us for that.  We're writers because we do one thing differently, one thing that everyone around us knows how to do: write.  All the nunaces reside there.
One of the three French literary prizes awarded to the book.
9. The words are good, Marcus.  But don't write in order to be read; write in order to be heard.
8. Who dares, wins.  Think about that motto, Marcus, whenever you are faced with a difficult choice.  Who dares, wins.
7. Cherish love, Marcus.  Make it your greatest conquest, your sole ambition...  After books, there will be other books.  After glory, there will be other glory.  After money, there will be yet more money.  But after love, Marcus, after love, there is nothing but the salt from tears.
6. You see, Marcus, words are good, but sometimes they're not enough.  There comes a time when some people don't want to hear...  When words lose their power, you have to throw a few punches.
5. A new book, Marcus, is the start of a new life.  It's also an act of great generosity: You are offering, to whoever wishes to discover it, a part of yourself...  You're writing it for all those who, in their daily lives, will enjoy a sweet moment because of Marcus Goldman.  You say that doesn't sound like much, but it's actually quite something.  Some writers want to change the world.  But who can really change the world?
4. When you get to the end of the book, Marcus, give your reader a last-minute twist...  Because you have to keep them on tenterhooks until the end.  It's like when you're playing cards: you have to hold a few trump cards for the final part of the game.
3. Your life will be punctuated by a succession of major events.  Mention them in your books, Marcus.  Because if the book turns out to be bad, they will at least have the merit of recording a few pages of history.
2. Sometimes you'll feel discouraged, Marcus.  That's normal.  I told you that writing was like boxing, but it's also like running.  That why I keep sending you out to pound the pavement: If you have the moral courage to run a long way, in the rain, in the cold, if you have the strength to keep going until the end, to give it all you have and to reach your goal, then you're capable of writing a book.  Never let fear or fatigue stop you.  On the contrary: You should use them to help you keep going.
1. The last chapter of the book, Marcus, should always be the best.

Thursday, September 11, 2014

#GIRLBOSS by Sophie Amoruso, 2014

An unconventional business book, #GIRLBOSS kicks ass.

Sophia Amoruso, CEO of Nasty Gal online retailer, has a distinctive style that has driven her company to over $100 million dollars in annual revenue.

She is the first to admit that her story is a one in a trillion chance of success, but by working non-stop, combining her loves for vintage clothing and photography, listening to her customers, and groveling over the details, she has become a multi-millionaire CEO by 30.

#GIRLBOSS offers practical business advice - such as a No Asshole policy - in a fun, real way.  Her chapter on fiscal responsibility is titled: Money Looks Better in the Bank Than on Your Feet.

Chapter dividers are black pages, which is a nice touch and reflects Amoruso's individuality.

I plan to give this book to my nieces when they're older.  It provides practical advice about working hard, questioning things, and being different in a down-to-earth, "cool" (i.e. non-stuffy) tone.

Amoruso talks honestly about her experiences shoplifting and not fitting in throughout her life.  About how she was broke as a joke and never imagined that she would know what VC stood for, much less partner with one.

Her business did not start by connections, extensive capital, a chance someone took on her or dreams of running a hundred million dollar business.  Instead, Amoruso started her business by opening an eBay store.

Below is advice from Amoruso about building and maintaining a successful business:

* It's all about the customer - Utilizing social media, Amoruso read and responded to every email from her customers.  She realized that customers used her online catalog to style their outfits so always includes suggestions on what to wear with each piece.

* Pay attention to details - It's the little things that matter.  Amoruso talks about doggedly chasing down a button that was missing from a vintage Chanel jacket.  Intent on providing the customer with a quality piece, she chased down the button by sending an existing button to Chanel NY, where they matched and sent back an extra button.  Best of all, Chanel provided the button for free, following the motto that it really is all about customer service.

Amoruso states:
"When you take care of the little things, you'll be pleasantly surprised to find out that the big things often happen more easily."

* Work tirelessly - There are no shortcuts to success.  While building her eBay store in her early twenties, Amoruso spent hours each day focused on her business, working instead of hanging out with friends or socializing.  Her apartment was filled with boxes and merchandise, and her days were filled with improving on and growing her eBay store.

Amoruso states:
"I am talking about visualization that works when we actually get off our asses and do stuff...  Each time you show up to work and work hard and do your best at everything you can do, you're planting seeds for a life that you can only hope will grow beyond your wildest dreams.  Take care of the little things - even the little things that you hate - and treat them as promises to your own future.  Soon you'll see that fortune favors the bold who get shit done."

"Keep reminding yourself over and over that this is what you want, and you'll soon find that the more you know what you want, the less you're willing to put up with what you don't."

* Play to your strengths, know your weaknesses - Success lies in knowing your weaknesses and playing to your strengths.

A weakness that I need to work on is questioning things.  I don't questions things enough to get at the core issues.  I trust without verifying.

Amoruso states:
"I've learned not to be shy about stopping someone in the middle of a presentation to ask him to please clarify something because I don't know what he's talking about.  If I still don't get it, I'll tell him so and ask him to explain it again...  No matter where you are in life, you'll save a lot of time by not worrying too much about what other people think about you."

"I want problem solvers who take nothing at face value.  I want people who fight for their ideas, even fight for me.  I want people who are comfortable with disagreement.  And I need people who sometimes, after all of that, hear the word "no" and get right back up to work even harder."

My strengths include my optimism.  I am risk adverse and manage risk well, but remain optimistic throughout.

Amoruso states:
"Focus on the positive things in your life and you'll be shocked at how many more positive things start happening.  But before you start to think you just got lucky, remember that it's magic, and you made it  yourself."

Like all business and self-help books, pithy quotes from others are also included:

I think we are well advised to keep on nodding terms with the people we used to be, whether we find them attractive company or not. - Joan Didion

Why fit in when you were born to stand out? - Dr. Seuss

Don't get caught up in hanging out and drinking or partying.  Celebrate when there's something to celebrate.  Take pride in what you do.  Don't do sloppy work.  Be the best.  Have something original and special to offer that makes people's lives better. - Alexi Wasser, IMBOYCRAZY blogger and writer

The most important thing to do is to take risks.  The risks are where breakthroughs happen, and big shifts take you to new places and create opportunities.  They can be really scary and intimidating, but that means it is taking you out of your comfort zone. - Norma Kamali, Fashion Designer and Entrepreneur

I never dreamed about success.  I worked for it. - Estee Lauder

Monday, September 1, 2014

Wedding Night by Sophie Kinsella, 2013

15998118A few years ago, I had tried reading Sophie Kinsella's Shopoholics series, but was appalled by the vacuousness.

I picked up Wedding Night since I'm getting married so figured that the title was apropos for what was happening in my life.

I'm glad I gave Kinsella another chance.  She is a humorous writer who can move plots along.

The writing is not layered with emotions and deep characters like Emily Giffen novels, but the novel is a fun romp.

Reading Kinsella is like watching  the reality TV show "The Bachelor," mindless entertainment.

The story is told from the point of view of two sisters, Lottie and Fliss.  Lottie is crushed when she believes her boyfriend of four years is about to propose, and finds out that that is the furthest thing from his mind.

Fliss' circumstance is no less miserable as she wallows in the misery of her divorce while sharing custody of her son.

Events are kicked off when an old flame (am I dating myself with this term...?) contacts Lottie and ends up proposing to her over dinner despite not having seen her for over a decade.

You see, they had met in Ikonos before starting university and spent a summer together carefree without any adult worries.  It was a magical time and both want to recapture that time so agree to get married.

That night.  Over dinner.  

The wedding is planned for two weeks later.  There will be no long engagement as the couple agrees to be together as man and wife when they are indeed man and wife.

The hasty wedding causes concern not just for Fliss, but also Ben's best mate and co-worker, Lorcan.  Fliss contacts Lorcan as they plot to prevent Lottie and Ben from making a mistake and going through with their rash decision to get married.

Naturally, Lorcan is a handsome man who is also divorced, and ends up being the perfect man to help Fliss get over her difficult divorce.

Shenanigans ensure involving a hotel concierge named Nico, the re-appearance of Richard, Lottie's ex-boyfriend who of course realizes that he should have proposed after all, and a trip back to Ikonos, where it all began.

Filled with light-hearted capers and lines that made me chuckle, Wedding Night did provide a true lesson - that attempting to recapture the beauty and experience from the past often leads to disappointment.

As observed by Arthur, the grumpy old Greek man who owns the hotel that Lottie and Ben stayed in during their teenage years, people should not revisit the past and expect to be as moved by it as they once were.

"Don't revisit.  Youth is still where you left it, and that's where it should stay.  What are you returning for?  Anything that was worth taking on life's journey, you'll already have taken with you."

The other aspect about Kinsella that I enjoy is that she is English, so the story is peppered with English terms such as git, which is equivalent to a tool in American vernacular.  A useful term to know indeed!